For couples that share a faith in God, there are special issues to consider on the road to a happy marriage.

The Dance of Love
Marriage is much like a song and dance. Husbands and wives step onto the dance floor of life hand in hand together. If we each understand our role, the better the dance is for years and years to come.

Men were created to lead. Women were created to complement and complete man. As wives, we want a strong man who knows how to lead. Without a strong male to lead the song, there can be no dance.

The song is the atmosphere or environment women set for our husbands to lead - or not to lead. Women control how their husbands act or react by the song they choose. Our attitude, respect, love, and tone in which women speak is what men need.

Marriage is a partnership; it can't be done alone. Ask yourself, who's leading the dance and what song will be played in my marriage? ~ Pastor Shannan Labrador of Frontline Community Church 295-9020 www.frontlinescv.com

Humility is the Secret
Ecclesiastes 4:12 (NLT) says that a person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken. Two people committed to living out the word of God in humility is the secret to achieving a long and happy marriage.

Humility toward God and each other requires that we be sensitive to one another, honest with one another and forgiving of each other. Humility is admitting that we are not perfect or without error. Humility allows us to say, "I am sorry. I was wrong. I love you. Please forgive me." ~ Pastor Les Robinson of Burning Bush Church 297-(BUSH)2874 www.burningbushchurch.org

Plan for the Happiest Day of your Life
Tuesday, August 18
Santa Clarita Wedding & Event Professionals Hosts Bridal Seminar
7 p.m. at the Hyatt Regency Valencia
Make wedding planning easier on yourself - and your budget - by channeling the successful secrets of over 20 So Cal pros. The experts who make up the Santa Clarita Wedding Professionals will be on hand to answer your pressing questions. By teaching you how to avoid common mistakes, you'll save money, too. Guests will be treated to a Champagne toast, dance lessons, appetizers, wedding cake samples and more. Seating is limited and registration is required. Cost is $10 for the bride and one guest; 296-6191 www.santaclaritaweddings.com

Sunday, August 2
The Bellisima Bride Bridal Show
10 a.m. to 4 p.m. at the Hyatt Regency Valencia
Meet popular bridal experts who can help you create the wedding of your dreams. Attend trend-setting fashion shows with extraordinary bridal gowns, formal wear and fashions. Enjoy creative, award-winning entertainment. See extraordinary photos and video samples that will give you great ideas for your own wedding. Bridal gowns, registries, cakes, caterers, DJs, florists, invitations, officiants, musicians, photographers, rentals and decor, salons and spas, limousines, honeymoon experts, tuxedos, videographers, wedding planners and novelty gifts - they're all here. Cost is $8 per person or pre-register online for $4; www.bellisimabride.com